Parent reading guide, practical activities and family journal

How Smart Is Your Baby?

The books, personal experiences, how-to project and eight family videos that shaped Dr. Miller’s approach to supporting early development.

How to read this page: This is Dr. Miller’s family experience and interpretation of two influential books, not a claim that every child should develop on the same timeline. Activities are never forced. Any movement setup must be used only while the baby is awake and continuously supervised.
 
An empowered and educated parent

Why How Smart Is Your Baby? mattered to our family

If you are a new parent or expecting a child, How Smart Is Your Baby? offers a detailed way to think about early sensory and motor development. It influenced the activities, personal observations, videos and practical project preserved on this page.

Every child has individual timing

Every baby develops at an individual pace. These experiences should never become a comparison, competition or rigid schedule for another child.

Parents can create opportunities

Dr. Miller’s central message is that parents can provide loving opportunities for vision, hearing, language, movement and connection rather than assuming development is entirely passive.

Observe the baby’s response

The baby’s cues guide the activity. Pause when the baby is tired, distressed or no longer interested. The relationship matters more than completing an exercise.

Newborn development: Vision, hearing, communication and coordinated movement are immature at birth and develop rapidly. The original book encouraged parents to provide thoughtful stimulation as those nervous-system pathways mature.
 
Ask before assuming

Being an educated parent

How to Raise a Healthy Child in Spite of Your Doctor encouraged parents to understand what is routinely offered to newborns instead of discovering it only after the birth. The purpose here is informed consent and thoughtful questions – not promotion of a vaccine, drug or procedure.

Newborn eye medication

Ask what is routinely used and why

Parents are reminded that medication may be placed in a newborn’s eyes soon after birth. Parents can ask what product is used, what concern it is intended to address and how maternal testing or local requirements affect the decision.

Vitamin K

Understand the available approaches

The original article discussed asking about oral drops rather than an injection. Formulations and protocols are not interchangeable, so this page does not provide a do-it-yourself dose or claim that every route offers identical protection. The important point is to ask questions before the birth.

Hepatitis B

Know what may be offered

The hepatitis B vaccination is often discussed or offered soon after birth. This page does not promote that vaccination. It preserves Dr. Miller’s point that parents should understand what is proposed, why, the timing and the information relevant to their family.

Skin-to-skin contact

Protect the first connection when circumstances allow

Placing a stable newborn directly on the mother’s chest can support bonding, warmth and the transition after birth. The original article encouraged making this preference known before delivery.

Delay the first bath

Allow time for bonding and transition

The original guide encouraged waiting approximately 12-24 hours before the first bath when circumstances allow, preserving the newborn’s natural skin coating and uninterrupted early contact.

Delay cord cutting

Ask about waiting for the cord to stop pulsing

The original article encouraged parents to discuss waiting until the cord has stopped pulsing and collapsed before cutting it, when the condition of mother and baby allows. The exact timing can vary.

Prepare questions before delivery: A family should not be pressured into an uninformed decision in either direction. Learn what may be offered, ask why and make the family’s preferences known ahead of time.
Vision, hearing and early language

Supporting the developing senses

The book describes development as a process of giving the nervous system repeated opportunities to receive and organize information. Dr. Miller’s family used simple light, sound and language activities as part of daily interaction.

Vision development

Light and dark language activity

Using a dimmable room light, the family gently changed the ambient light while clearly saying “Light” and “Dark.” The activity connected a visual change with spoken words and later with counting.

Use only a comfortable room-light change. Never shine an intense light directly into a baby’s eyes, and stop if the baby appears uncomfortable or overstimulated.

Hearing development

Simple sounds and clear words

The family used simple sounds, including wooden blocks, while naming what the baby was hearing. The goal was to provide a clear auditory experience and loving interaction, not to use loud or startling noise.

Vision: one of the simplest, however most important activities

This activity was performed regularly from the early newborn period until the family felt the baby’s vision had matured. It was fun but required several hands. Dr. Miller believed that earlier visual engagement opened the door to more learning and enjoyment. This is a personal family observation, not proof that another infant will see earlier or more clearly.

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Movement and the breathing centers

Why the book emphasized early movement

The book connected movement with development of the nervous system, breathing, strength and coordination. Dr. Miller’s infant showed a desire to push and crawl very early, and the family experimented with reducing gravity’s resistance through an inclined crawling track.

Movement was offered, not forced

The baby was asked through observation and interaction whether he wanted to continue. Crying and changes in tone were treated as communication. As the family learned his sounds, they became better at recognizing when to stop.

Progress was never a comparison

The videos show selected moments from one child. Every child develops with individual nervous-system timing, and parents naturally tend to save and share the best days.

Awake activity only: The inclined track described below is not a sleep surface. A baby should never be left unattended on it. Use requires continuous hands-on adult supervision, a secure setup and immediate stopping when the baby shows distress.
Preserved practical project

Building the family crawling track

Materials used for the crawling track
  • One sheet of smooth-finish plywood, 3/4 inch thick and 8 feet long
  • One-inch high-density upholstery foam, enough to cover the four plywood pieces
  • Easy-to-clean upholstery fabric, such as vinyl or leather-like material, using dark and light colors for visual contrast
  • Upholstery staple gun and staples
  • Utility knife
  • Upholstery sewing machine, optional
  • Table saw, or request the cuts when purchasing the plywood
  • Drill
  • Approximately 50-100 2 1/2-inch Torx-head deck screws
Measurements and assembly steps
  1. Cut the plywood: one base piece 16 inches wide by 96 inches long; two side pieces 6 inches wide by 95 inches long; and one end cap 6 inches wide by 16 inches long.
  2. Prepare the upholstery and foam: cut strips to fit all four pieces, leaving enough overlap to staple the material securely.
  3. Wrap each piece: fit the foam and fabric snugly around the plywood and staple from the underside. The family added contrasting 10-inch light strips over dark upholstery to create visual markers.
  4. Attach the end cap: screw the end piece securely to one end of the base.
  5. Attach the side rails: screw upward from the underside of the base into the rails and into the end cap, keeping all exposed surfaces smooth and padded.
  6. Check the entire structure: verify that no screw, staple, hard edge, gap or loose fabric is accessible to the baby.
  7. Supervised setup: the family initially demonstrated an incline of roughly 30 degrees. Any angle or use must remain stable, continuously supervised and limited to awake activity.

Two books that influenced Dr. Miller’s approach

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How Smart Is Your Baby book cover

Early development

How Smart Is Your Baby?

Glenn and Janet Doman’s guide inspired the sensory activities, movement observations and crawling-track project documented on this page.

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How to Raise a Healthy Child in Spite of Your Doctor book cover

Informed parenting

How to Raise a Healthy Child in Spite of Your Doctor

Robert Mendelsohn’s book encouraged parents to ask questions, understand routine interventions and take an active role in family health decisions.

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Dr. Miller’s family archive

Eight videos with the original context restored

These videos document one family’s observations. They do not establish a universal milestone schedule or treatment protocol.

Vision activity

Light, dark, numbers and new words

The family practiced the light-and-dark activity regularly from birth. It was enjoyable but required several hands. Dr. Miller felt earlier visual engagement opened the door to more learning and enjoyment.

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5 days old

Wants to crawl

The book emphasized movement and the breathing centers. The family observed the baby’s early desire to push and move. Dr. Miller also periodically used a low-level cold laser from his office to observe whether he noticed a difference; this is preserved as a personal observation, not an infant-treatment recommendation.

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15 days old

Learning the baby’s communication

The family initially viewed some exertion sounds as part of the effort. More importantly, the baby was never forced to continue. If he cried or signaled that he did not want the activity, the session stopped.

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20 days old

Head control and growing strength

This video records early head and trunk movement. No parent should compare a child with these clips. Every child develops at an individual speed and with individual nervous-system timing.

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1 month, 2 days old

The coffee-table incline

At this stage, one end of the track was approximately coffee-table height and the other was on the floor, creating an incline near 30 degrees. The black-and-white checkerboard in the background came from the book’s visual-stimulation instructions.

Each stage became more difficult as weight increased. Strength and body-weight ratios were constantly changing – and, like every proud parent, the family saved the best days to share.

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6 weeks, 3 days old

A parental mistake and an important lesson

Looking back, Dr. Miller recognized from the baby’s cry that he was not in the mood for the activity that day. The session still contained love, but the video became an honest lesson: as parents know their baby’s sounds better, they must listen and respond better.

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12 weeks, 2 days old

Gravity and weight continue to change

The family adjusted the track height as the baby’s weight and strength changed, trying to provide movement opportunity without letting his feet become overbalanced.

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4 months, 1 week, 5 days old

Beginning the full crawling motion

The baby was beginning to lift his entire body and coordinate the crawling pattern. By this time, the family observed that he wanted the activity more than once per day.

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The most important lesson: Love the child, observe the child and never compare the child. The videos preserve a family’s experience; the baby’s response always matters more than completing the activity.
Family health journey

Move easily from fertility through pregnancy and early development

These three guides are designed to work together. Start with the stage that fits your family now, then move directly to the next resource whenever you are ready.

Stage 1

Fertility and Ovulation

Understand cycle timing, the fertile window, waking temperature and ovulation predictor kits.

Stage 2

Pregnancy Guide

Continue into pregnancy-adapted chiropractic care, nutrition, postpartum support and practical resources.

Stage 3

Baby and Early Development

Explore informed newborn choices, early sensory activities, movement, books and the family video journal.

Use the books as tools for thoughtful parenting

The lasting value of this page is not making every baby follow one protocol. It is helping parents become observant, engaged, informed and intentional.

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